Who is feeling lonely this week?
I can’t remember the exact age I learned this but you can be surrounded by people and loved ones and still feel incredibly lonely.
I suppose in the same way you can be alone in the woods and feel incredibly connected.
I remember when I first got my own office at my old finance job, “I have made it” I thought in my youth, “I am wolf of wall street” (maybe more sleepy bear of the banking world) but still, YES! THIS OFFICE IS MINE. I don’t have to be out amongst the public! FREEDOM
Then the strangest thing happened
The door to my shiny new office closed and I was alone. So I powered on! talking to clients all day would help right? I still felt like a ghost, there but somehow also not there at all.
So when brutal banking job cuts came along I was told I would be back in the main hall! Greeting customers helping them out, GREAT I’m going to dive back into it and it’ll be amazing.
I was surrounded by more people than ever but I still felt hollow and alone.
Then it hit me like a truck, I wasn’t showing up as a genuine version of me because I didn’t care about my work.
I was good at it, and it was fine but there was no passion, my heart wasn’t in it.
I invested in my future and my real self came home for the first time in 16 years.
Now when I work I am in an office alone a lot. I'm never lonely, I make so many genuine connections and I take that into my life and relationships outside of work because I have PASSION and I SHOW UP every day to everything.
Do you feel lonely today? Do you turn up physically but are not showing up genuinely?
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